Get Over A Girl Assess Yourself So You Can Move On

Do you know how to get over a girl? She dumped you

, said goodbye, and is moving on with her life. You're left nursing a broken heart and wondering whether you have a life left. This is how to get over girl.

First, you need to assess your current state. What are you really feeling? Is it the sting of pride that she no longer wants you? Is it loneliness because she used to fill up so much of your time? Is it deeper because you really felt she was the love of your life?

Do a little bit of self analysis. Once you have deduced the main thing you are feeling, it is easier to move on.

If your hurt comes from an assault on your pride, you need to get in touch with your strengths. If you had low self esteem to begin with, having a girl who you cared about say that she no longer wants to see you can batter you. But, when you assess your strengths, you can also see why other women would want you.

You can also use this time to figure out what your weaknesses are. If you want to get over girl and find a new girlfriend, think about what your ex said when she left you. She probably gave you some clues about how you can be a better boyfriend the next time around. Do you need to be neater, more considerate, or spend more time with her? Alternatively, are you a neat freak, too controlling, or spend too much time with her? These are things you can use to be a more attractive boyfriend to the next girl.

Another reason guys have a hard time get over girl is because they have trouble filling up the space the girlfriend left. The bed is empty at night. There's no one to go to the movies with. There's no one to laugh at your jokes.

Part of the healing process after a break up is getting back out there and facing the real world again. Start to fill up your time with people and interests that put you back on the scene. Spend time with your buddies, join a softball team, teach your 10 year old nephew to surf. If you are anxious to start dating again soon, take up activities that attract more women than men. Two that I can think of are ballroom dancing (women always need partners), and church (the numbers in the singles class are definitely in your favor).

But, if you really thought this woman was the love of your life, your soul mate, it is going to take more than superficial changes to get through this. You may go through a depression and need professional help. You may also need to dig deeper and find out what soul mate means to you and how you can identify it for real next time.

Getting over a girl is never easy. With some self analysis, you can be a better boyfriend for the next girl. But don't rush into anything. Enjoy being single for a while. Time heals most wounds and you will get over a girl, really!

Get Over A Girl Assess Yourself So You Can Move On

By: H Todd Scholer

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