Having A Positive Attitude Could Bring Many Rewards

I'm the type of individual who used to possess a very negative attitude to most factors of life

. I'm not alone in considering this way as most of the people I satisfy seem to become continuously moaning about different things and essentially feeling sorry for themselves. This write-up looks in the factors and benefits of having a more good outlook on existence.

About ten years ago I decided that I needed to have a change of approach. I wanted to be a happy and care-free person and was fed up of always being stressed and worrying about the future. To achieve this I started to read many self-help, confidence type books and websites.

There was a regular message which came from this literature which was to think more positive and to believe in your ability to succeed in whatever you attempt to do.

This is easy to write or say, but in reality it is difficult to implement in practice. Of course I tried but in truth I did not really believe in the whole practice. I would go into a task thinking, I can do this, but it would still end up in failure.

I could not understand what was going wrong so I therefore went back to the books to try to learn more. There was a new and even more important message which I had missed the first time around. What I had to do was to take a positive out of whatever happens to me, even if this is learning from my failings.

As an example of taking a positive from whatever occurs in life, is some thing which happened in my loved ones lately. My nan has lately passed away, she was eighty-eight. I used to go to her a minimum of once a week at the flat where she lived. She was a really truthful individual and always talked very openly to me. Around two months before she died she told me that she was really tired understanding that she no lengthier wanted to become on this planet.

I was quite shocked by her admission and asked her what was wrong. She stated that she had nothing to appear forward to and that she didn't wish to reach a point exactly where she could no longer bath herself and so on. She continued that she hoped that I would not grieve for to long when she did die understanding that she wanted me to be pleased for her.

This was quite upsetting for me to hear but at least she was being honest of course. Two months later my dad phoned me and told me that my nan had passed away in the night.

I was obviously upset and the thought of never being able to see her again hit me hard. I then thought about what she had said and looked up to the sky and gave my nan a smile and a message, I love you.

I thought positive about the whole event and was actually happy for her. I hope that one day we will meet again.

by: John Di Lemme.

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