How Can I Find Out Who The Other Woman Is? Here's Some Suggestions

I get a lot of emails from women who know in their hearts that their husband is having an affair

. There's not a doubt in their mind. And, they feel that they absolutely need to know who the "other woman" or mistress is. They often ask me how to identify her. So, in the following article, I'll tell you what I often tell them.

You'll Often Find The Mistress At Work Or At School: Statistics tell us that most cheating happens at work. And, if you're husband is going to school, this is the equivalent of his job. So, these places are the first that you should check. Now, you don't want to follow your husband, get caught, and then have to explain yourself.

So, come right out in the open with it. Surprise him with dinner or just drop by on your way to somewhere else. Be upbeat and positive unless the experience gives you a reason not to. Because ifthis excursiondoesn't yield anything useful, you don't want to tipyour hand ormake his antennaego up. This will only tip him off that he needs to be better about hiding it, ifhe's indeed cheating.

Things You Can Do To Find Out Who The MistressIs Without Confronting Your Husband: I often tell women that they should wait until they are sure about the affair before they confronttheir husband. So manythings can go wrong if you put the cart before the horse.

There are places that you can look for clues to the cheating. You can check his car, hiscredit card bills, his computer, and his cell phone, to name only a few places. Sometimes, you'll find personal effects (fromher) in the car. Often, you can find restaurants or hotels bills on the credit card (and they willoften go to this place again and again, so when he's MIA again, this place should be the first place you look.) You can identify unknown numbers on his cell phone. Once you have the numbers, you can run them in a reverse look up directory, getthe address and then go to a web site likedirectory assistanceplusor the property appraisers web site in your city and plug in the address to find out who owns the home.And, if you have the right software, you can uncover tons of deleted information and clues from his computer.

I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn't want to acknowledge it. But after thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can read my very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/

How Can I Find Out Who The Other Woman Is? Here's Some Suggestions

By: Seeta Dean

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