One thing you've got to understand if you want to learn how to last long in bed is how masturbation affects how long you last... One of the main causes of premature ejaculation among men is their own incorrect patterns of behavior during masturbation. I know a lot of men like to blame their genes and other unrelated things as a reason for their premature ejaculation. It is easy to oversee masturbation as something completely unrelated to premature ejaculation. You try to re-collect what your typical masturbation was like when you were a teenager.
The majority of teens do not have a luxury of complete privacy to masturbate freely. There is always a danger that your sibling or a parent might just get into the room without knocking. So you do not want to be doing dirty things too much.
Whatever your specific situation was, almost every man growing up can relate to the fact of not feeling like there was necessarily all the privacy available to them when they wanted it. For this very reason, most teenage boys only have a few options when they feel like they need to please themselves. Share:
Of course you can try to masturbate slowly as if you live alone, but there is a huge chance that you are going to get caught by someone.
What was more likely to happen was that you would masturbate with an intention to ejaculate as fast possible.
The reality is that not many men are brave enough to risk being walked in on, so they just go with second option. Because no one wants to get caught masturbating. At that age this is the best option. But as our opportunities for privacy increase with age most men don't change this habit. Because we've done it all our childhood most men just keep masturbating with the aim to orgasm as quickly as possible.
But there's one big problem here... When you masturbate you condition yourself for how long you last in bed. I really want you understand what I have just said. It is very possible to learn how to delay ejaculation by masturbating the correct way. Masturbation should be treated less as a way to please yourself and more as a way to train for a real thing.
If you consistently masturbate only for 5 minutes before you reach ejaculation it is unreasonable to expect to last half an hour in sex. It is impossible for body to do that. It is important that you try to improve your masturbation habits before you expect strong sexual endurance in the bedroom. It is really easy to slowly change your masturbation habits.