How To Communicate With Him To Get Him Back

Communication is the foundation of any loving relationship and never has this truth been so meaningful than after a breakup if you are trying to get him back

, right? You wish he could read your mind and know how much you love him. You want him to really know your heart and you are sure that if he did he would come back to you. Unfortunately, these days communication with your ex is strained at best and nonexistent most of the time.

Your attempts to communicate with your ex and let him know how much you love him and want him back are probably met with coldness, indifference and possibly even anger at times. He doesnt even seem like the man you loved and your heart breaks with every passing day. But what can you do to improve communication with your ex and get him back.

Look even though you might want to get him back right now this topic needs to be one that you avoid like the plague. Every time you bring it up you are only pushing him further away. Every time you tell him that you still love him you make things worse. You might believe that he could forget that you love him or that you dont want him any more but why not make him wonder if you love him or miss him? Make a pact with yourself that you will not be the first one to say I love you and that the topic of getting back together again will never be brought up by you ever again.

You want him to want to come back to you, dont you? Instead of getting back together after a lengthy discussion of the pro and cons of getting back together wouldnt it be nicer if the two of you just fell in love again? Can you imagine the bliss of having him flirt with you again as you coyly play hard to get? Can you see him awkwardly lingering after spending some time together as he musters up the courage to kiss you again? Dream of late nights sitting up talking and laughing instead of strained conversations over all the bad things that the two of you did and said to each other.

Love is a wonderful thing and it wont be denied. You can count on that. You love him and somewhere deep down inside surrounded by walls and encased in ice is his heart and the love that he always held for you and always WILL carry for you. You can bet on that. Now your job is to warm his heart and gently break down that wall so that love can flow freely from his heart again straight to you. Simple, right? But how can you do this if he wont even talk to you?

Getting him back and making him fall in love with you is simple if you know a little bit about how guys work. Forcing him into counseling or hours talking about your relationship is a sure way to kill his love for you and your chances of getting him back. On the other hand, if you know how to take control of your relationship and lead him back to you then you have a chance of getting him back. Knowing what to say, how to say it and what not to say are key to your success if you ever hope to get him back. Knowing how to break down that wall and open his heart can be an easy task that requires some patience, understanding of the male psyche and some cunning.

The choice is up to you though. You can try to get him back using traditional techniques such as confrontation and relationship analysis or you can make him fall in love with you all over again by speaking to his heart and subconscious mind. I think you know what will work best and which will bring your man back to you and keep him in love with you forever.

by: Cory Jean

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