How To Flirt With Women
Understanding the flirting dynamics and getting it right
, can be difficult for most men . . . at least getting it right. They either never learned how to or they have it completely wrong. Most guys say things like this: "Go here often. "Let me buy you a drink?" "You from here?" Duh. This is not effective flirting, but just cheesy pick up lines that don't work. It's not a big surprise that most men are frustrated and confused as to how to attract beautiful women into their lives by flirting with them.
In fact there's so much bad dating advice out there. I am sure you are sick of it as much as I was 6 years ago. But, use these three gems, and you game will change dramatically!
Be A Bit More Self Centered: No More Mr. Nice Guy
So, the key to learning the secrets to flirting with women is understanding how attraction works for women: they are attracted to men who make them feel safe, secure, comfortable, and excited at the same time. The nice-guy act is used so frequently because most men think that that will lead to sex.
Think about it: would a guy that is completely submissive to a woman going to be good at standing up for themselves, let alone protect that woman? Most "nice-guys" have a passive aggressive agenda that women hate: being nice and not being yourself, just to get sex. Women simply do not like this type of guy.
Be more assertive around women and drop the "nice-guy" routine. It doesn't work. Be a bit more self-centered, but in a playful way. Flirt with women by saying things like this: -You're gonna make me blush with those (comment on a characteristic of her) of yours, but I don't want you to do something that might embarrass us here. Or You take forever to get ready.
Always have an air of superiority. Just a little more than her and do it in a playful way.
Using Unpredictability
Now, we know that you need to make her feel safe, secure, comfortable, but how do you balance that out with excitement? Unpredictability and leaving her guessing is one of the more super effective strategies you can use. Make sure though that you balance this unpredictability with responsibility and confidence, least you come off as loopy.
Keep your values and personality whole, not folding to hers. But, you will simply be stunned at how much more desirable you will become when a woman realizes she can't control you just because you want to be with her.
Since super attractive women have a lot of guys after them, they are used to all of the attention from men. If you know this, you will understand women. Basically, women are bored of this, so, you have to set yourself apart: you will be less predictable and to her, you will be more exciting to be around..,
And our final dating tip for men
Teasing Her When She "Tests" You
If you give a woman what she wants, it will bore her to tears. Look, women want to control men, but she's seeing if he sees his life as more important than her's. A man that's strong enough to stay on his course unaltered by her influence no matter how hot she is. If you fail this test, you will end up as just her friend.
The good news is that is very easy to stop these tests because 99% of the time they are unreasonable and sometimes downright ridiculous. Clue her in that "you're in the know." Tease her on her outrageous behavior. You are going to be "calling her out" on her unreasonableness with a tease. As soon as you do this, you will be ahead of 90% of the men out there.
If she gives you a bad time, that's a good thing. That means she's attracted to you. Just put her in her place by saying these stock responses: You would, you dork! You're such a brat. I can tell, your last boyfriend didn't spank you enough! Say this in a playful way and watch the magic start to happen.
If you use these 3 huge secrets, it will make a enormous difference in your dating life. Then, you will become the focus of your social circle as all of your male friends wonders where you earned the secrets to flirting with women.
How To Flirt With Women
By: Viktor Kurgan
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