How to Get the Ex Back Even If He's Moved On
How to Get the Ex Back Even If He's Moved On
There is no other pain in the world, like the pain a women feels when she sees her ex-boyfriend with another women. A relationship can end for many reasons, and if the man decides he is able to move on to another women it can be absolutely unbearable for the other women to see. If you are like most women, and you are still madly in love with your ex, you will keep it a secret. Of course, asking and begging for the relationship to be rekindled will not help. If do want to get your ex-boyfriend back, even if he has moved on, there are a few things you will want to think about first.
If it was your ex that ended the relationship because he had found comfort in another women, don't belittle her to him. This careless move will only reflect badly on yourself. Making you come across as immature and childish. A better move if he speaks of the new women in front of you, is to embrace it. Comment on how great you believe the two of them are together, and that you only wish him the best. Of course your gag reflex will more then likely be activated at this point, but you will strike his curiosity. Making him wonder why you don't care.
When you are putting your plan of attack together on how to get your ex-boyfriend back, you want to make sure you stay completely in control of the situation. Don't become emotional, and let on that you still are wanting him. Playing hard to get, as they say, and making him wonder why you are not sobbing like a little puppy dog will instantly strike his interest. You don't want to prance around like you are on top of the world. This will give the impression that you are much happier without him. Don't let your sense of humor go, and make sure you keep a smile on your face.
A lot of couples stay in quite close contact after a break-up. Typically this is because they are both having difficulties letting the relationship go. They will text, e-mail or spend a good amount of time chatting on the phone. You don't want to give your ex-boyfriend the inclination that you are at his beck and call either. If you ignore a few calls and don't jump on every text message he sends, it will give him time to wonder what you are up to. Giving his mind a chance to wonder. If you do want to get your ex-boyfriend back, give him the opportunity to really miss you.
It appears that men like to test the women they are with periodically. Breaking up and dating another women to test how strong their feelings are as well. Usually the man will find himself thinking about his ex, and how much he misses her. The best piece of advice I can give you if you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, is turn your focus onto yourself. When you start to take care of yourself, you will be amazed at how quickly your ex will take notice.