There is nothing easy about forgiving your husband for his cheating
, for putting your family at risk. Forgiving him after he's cheated on you can be one of the most difficult things you'll ever do. Many women find it hard to forgive and just as many more will fault you if you leave.
With a loving family and many dreams on the line it would be very hard to walk away. That doesn't mean that your decision to stay is going to be easy by any means though. Only you can decide if forgiveness in this case is divine or the stuff that nightmares are made of. Forgiveness is the first step towards working out the problem that's really plaguing your marriage. You're going to have to forgive him. More importantly, you're going to have to forgive yourself.
How can you make yourself forgive him?
Forgiveness is the first step towards working out the problem that's really plaguing your marriage. You're going to have to forgive him. More importantly, you're going to have to forgive yourself. If you have children together you will forever be linked whether you like it or not. Your children do not need to bear the brunt of the hurt and pain or even bitterness that can result from your husband having an affair. If you have children together you will forever be linked whether you like it or not.
How do you forgive someone that hurt you so much?
Do you forgive him and work to move forward with your marriage? Or, do you decide to throw in the towel and let the other woman give it her best shot? Start working on fixing the problems in your marriage. Whether you knew there were problems before this happened or not, people in happy marriages or marriages with no problems do not have affairs. There are problems and they need to be fixed before you can even begin to think about moving forward with your marriage.