Mature dating, fool's rush in, ladies confidence first, then a new man!

Mature dating, fool's rush in, ladies confidence first

, then a new man!

More and more long-term relationships are starting to break down later in life, leaving more and more mature women left feeling that they are on the scrap heap in the twilight of their lives. Some will no doubt have found their partners leaving for a younger woman, bitterness will have crept in as they look back on a life bringing up the children and caring for a man whom they expected to be there for them. Children will have grown up and are now engrossed in lives and families of their own.

A distinct lack of confidence will only lead to friends ideas about dating again being treated with contempt, after all who would want them? A great many older women become easy targets for one sided and harmful relationships because of this lack of confidence, ending up with the first person who asks them out. There must be a better way, a way where confidence and self-esteem is built back up before rushing into mature dating too soon.

And today in every country mature dating is rising at a pace unthought-of only a few years ago; trust me there are quite honestly 1000's of single mature men out there all actively looking for a partner. Your trouble is never going to be finding a new man; rather it's going to be finding a man too soon and living to regret that decision. But who would want to date you I hear you asking? And it's because of that very question you ask that I venture the idea that before you rush in you build your confidence back up first. Fools rush in they say, and never is it truer than in dating, confident people always attract and appeal to others.

So how do you rebuild your self-esteem, by putting you first and looking in that mirror objectively. First stop the hairdressers, a new trendier style and no sign of those grey hairs anymore, then begin to look for a wardrobe that shows off your most appealing features. For example if once you were always thrown complimentary comments about your legs then look at a little shorter skirt than you've worn in years, older women can always get away with a shorter skirt combined with opaque tights. Dig out the heels and banish the comfortable flats, heels show off the ankle well what ever your age. And if your concerned about the few extra pounds you've gained over the years then pluck up the courage to join a local gym, trust me the majority of gym members during the day are your age, men and women . And don't worry about being made to run a marathon on your first visit, all gyms now have experts on hand to design a program just for you. Combine this with a healthy diet and you'll be feeling fitter and starting to see the inches drop off in no time.

And because your now a new and confident person when your girlfriends ask if you are considering dating, you'll say yes, yes the time is right. You know with this new found confidence you'll be the person in control, not the man. As your friends chat away you realise that there's never been a better time to look for a mature dating site on the web, and then you notice the admiring glances your attracting from the men seated around you, it's at that point that you decide to maybe yes you will start dating again, but this time you really do intend to make sure you shop around!

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