Relationships And Sex - The Right Amount Of Sleaze

Sex and guys seem synonymous

Sex and guys seem synonymous. But you, dear lady, probably do not know what your man really thinks about sex. Most do not. The popular opinion is that guys are dogs and if you feed them and sex them, they are content. That may be true for a few breeds, but not most. Let us look at one aspect of sexuality that we will refer to as the right amount of sleaze.

The old adage is that guys may like to look at a slut, but he does not want to marry one. There is some truth to that. Most men do not want their woman to be slutty. However, most women have the opinion that is how she turns him on.

The balance is the right amount of sleaze. Here is a question for you: Which will turn on your man most, walking into the room totally naked or barely covered? Even though he eventually wants you totally uncovered. there is hardly anything sexier than having to use his imagination...just a little.

He is a hunter and gatherer by nature. He needs a little resistance for the chase. Do not misunderstand, neither is he interested in a nun, unless he is a pervert. Do not give it all up at once. Hide just a little. A sheer nighty is fun. Or a silky robe not tied loosely, you know, a little cleavage, is a turn on.

The word tantalize means either to torment or tease. It promises that which is unobtainable. It excites the senses or desires. Are you following? Do you have any idea what this does to a guy. He will be licking your toes - well, maybe not that far, but he will be insane.

If sex is purely animalistic then just turn around and get it over with. But if it is on the level of intimacy, then work up to it.

Bring in to play as many of his senses as you can. This makes for a more total experience. Electric currents will ricashae through his body like a pen ball machine. Everything will be standing at attention.

Consider your scent. There is just something about scent that drives a guy crazy. Take him with you when you choose one. It will have lasting effects. If you hug him goodbye the next morning and your scent lingers on his clothing, he will be reminded of you all day.

Do not speak things of a sexual nature out loud, rather whisper it into his ear. Tell him what you want in bed - he likes that. Tell him what you are going to do to him. It will send chills up his spine. But blow it in his ear with the softness only you possess.

What is sexy about blurting it out? It comes off as a little rough. He may still get a little turned on by that approach, but nothing like your soft breath whispering in his sensitive ear. It will cover him with chills.

It is the tease we are talking about. Every man loses control under the tease. Become a master and he will become a slave. You have the control, so use it wisely and effectively. His heart will beat for you. He will melt over you like hot butter. Sparks, that is what I am talking about. Flames, out of control, with the right amount of sleaze.

by: Jim Cunningham

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