Staying Positive When Things Go Wrong
Staying Positive When Things Go Wrong
Staying Positive When Things Go Wrong
When unexpected negative events creep into one's life there is often a tendency to become worried, upset, pessimistic, unmotivated, sad, despairing or worse to feel like giving up. Would it surprise you if I said that it is possible to maintain a resilient positive attitude and an unshakeable optimism in such circumstances? How does one do that you ask?
Many individuals attempt to control their external environment in the hopes of warding of negative events. This approach not only requires a great deal of energy and attention it is also prone to failure because it is essentially impossible to have such encompassing mastery over one's external world.
There is a better and more effective way that addresses the reason why one's attitude might go south in such circumstances. This has everything to do with how the events are interpreted by those experiencing them.
For instance a negative event might be interpreted as:
1. A sign of personal failure.
2. A sign of one's sense of inadequacy.
3. A sign that one is undeserving.
4. A sign that one is bad.
5. A sign that one is unloved.
6. A sign that one is weak.
7. A sign that one is unattractive.
8. A sign that one is useless.
9. A sign that one is stupid.
And so on.
It is the belief in any of these that creates the downward spiral into a negative, despairing, pessimistic mind set that can literally bring ones life to an abrupt halt.
These beliefs don't simply arise when the negative events occur rather the individual is primed or imprinted with them much earlier in life by seminal childhood events that get stored within their subconscious minds as negative memories. These memories behave as what I call "emotional landmines" that have associated with old emotional pain that can get re-triggered by events in the present. Such memories also generate the negative beliefs noted above.
When these "landmines" are re-triggered the individual experiences a disproportionate degree of internal emotional instability that can render them non-functional. What is not well known however is that none of this is necessary.
What do I mean by that, you ask?
Well it turns out that these emotional landmines can now be completely and permanently deleted from the subconscious mind. This leaves one feeling like those earlier events never actually took place. The net effect of that is that one becomes resilient, immune, and unshakeable in the face of any current negative event.
That leaves them feeling strong, peaceful, confident, optimistic, empowered and completely unaffected by any thing that may go wrong in the present.
How is this possible, you ask?
Well a new coaching process developed a decade ago has shown the ability to do exactly what is described above i.e. to erase any/all negative memories or beliefs permanently and completely. To learn more about this, to request a free e-copy of my book or to request a free 1 hour introductory telephone/Skype consultation that will begin to help you appreciate what it feels like to be truly resilient kind visit the web site below.
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