Talking Dirty Doesn't Require Soap: Four Ways to Talk Dirty to
Talking Dirty Doesn't Require Soap: Four Ways to Talk Dirty to Your Intimate
Partner
Talking dirty talk to your partner may result in them posing the question,
"Do you want your mouth washed out with soap?" While you may playfully
answer with a "Yes, Daddy," it is likely inevitable you will barely have
time to answer as your partner will respond with passionately kissing,
touching, fondling, or groping you! At the very least, your partner will
sigh, moan, or groan anticipating great pleasure. Although, dirty talk is
considered as a fabulous fun way to initiate intimate play, not everyone is
comfortable posing such talk. Therefore, I have come up with a few tidbits to
assist you in being the sexual partner you have only dreamed of becoming!
Overcoming Fear
When it comes to dirty talk, the most difficult problem for my clients is
overcoming their fear of being embarrassed. Many of my clients admit that
they are afraid they will be viewed as stupid or that they will giggle out
loud! These fears aren't unwarranted! Rightfully so, there have been times
you mean to say one thing and it comes out another, and yes, you may have a
giggle moment! I can't guarantee that in reading this blog, you will
overcome this inhibition when it comes to dirty talk; however, I can
guarantee that when I individualize a program for a client, my clients
overcome these fears and have the confidence to dirty talk with their
partners! To get you started, I have provided a few broad generalized ideas
for you to try on your own!
Dirty Talk Questions
The first thing to do is to plan ahead what you might want to say. Sayings
are usually grouped into four different areas: suggestions, comments,
demands, and confessions. With suggestions, you will need to pose a
suggestion in the form of a question. Therefore, pose a question to ask your
partner asking if they would like to do something to you, or have you do
something for them. Make this question very specific. Use words that create
an erotic experience that you are comfortable using. Practice saying this
phrase over and over until it is comfortable to say out loud! An example of a
suggestion would be "Would you like me to lick your ear with my tongue and
suck it into my wanting mouth?"
Dirty Talk Comments
With comments, it is helpful to just make declarative statements. The
statement can be very erotic or very broad such as the erotic statement "I
love it when I hear you moan while I pleasure you" or the very broad
statement "Hearing a zipper is such a turn on." Statements, such as
this, said out of the blue are quite erotic for your partner to hear. The
erotic is very specific as being specific give the dirty talk more meaning or
direct context while the broad statement allows the mystery of your
partner's imagination to kick in!
Dirty Talk Demands
Likewise, direct demands are very sensual. While driving down the road, the
simple statements such as "Kiss me" or "Pull over and touch me" are
quite attention-getters. These demands, again, can be very specific by adding
more details than the rather broad demands such as the ones I just provided.
As you become more comfortable with using these phrases increase the verbiage
to include more erotic words, slang, or cuss words to build up the erotic
overtones.
Dirty Talk Confessions
This is the most fun aspect of dirty talk, however, it often takes being
involved with a partner with whom you trust combined with having confidence
in yourself and what you are about to say! Confessions can be real actual
fantasies or imagined! Using vivid detail during confessions can really up
the erotic feel of the moment! However, confessions can be broad and general
as well. For example, instead of saying a vivid confession such as "See
that gorgeous man, I'm wanting to run my red painted fingers across his
lips, stroke his chest with my palm, and beg him to spank my bottom with a
paddle," you could state a simplistic statement such as "I'm thinking
naughty thoughts about that man spanking me."
Dirty Talk in Summary
Dirty talk is certainly not for everyone, and dirty talk definitely has its
place and time depending on the mood or the anticipated reaction of your
partner. Of course, using dirty talk in the most inappropriate time and place
can add to the erotic overtones! Remember, the ability to talk dirty may come
natural for some of you and for others it will take positive experiences to
help you feel comfortable with upping the scale. On the other hand, if you
find yourself fearful of trying and needing that extra boost to help you be
able to utter the words you long to say or your partner needs to hear then
seek help. You are only a phone call away from minimizing your fears and
moments away from being the sexual partner you long to be within your
relationship!
Andrea Adams-Miller, MS, CHES
The Sexuality Tutor
www.sexualitytutor.com
Talking Dirty Doesn't Require Soap: Four Ways to Talk Dirty to
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