If you really want to avoid divorce, then the first step is trying to convice your spouse to give things another try. Although it isn't the easiest thing to do, it truly is needed if you want a chance at avoiding a potential divorce A divorce can be stopped at virtually any stagebefore its filed or just before it needs the final paperwork. The earlier you stop a divorce, the more likely it is that the divorce wont be restarted, at least not...more
If you feel your marriage is in trouble, but you don't want to give up on it just yet, then brace yourself to revive your marriage and relatinship. There are many books about it and lots of advice given from friends and counselors. There are marriage therapists to go to for counseling but most everyone will end up saying the same things and will not give you sound advice to take action on.Genuinely accepting and be honest with one another is the...more
Do you know these 3 most effective ways to build trust in a relationship? Often, what really makes a relationship work are not the things we think of first. For example, most people think it's very important for a couple to spice things up? The correct answer is! You may not believe this, but predictability is actually more important that spicing things up in a relationship. These helpful methods can certainly increase the connectivity between you and your partner and improve your current level of trust.First, being predictable can really be quite helpful. Yes, this goes against the common notion that you need to stir things up to keep the romance alive. Sure, going to a new restaurant or giving a surprise gift can be nice, but most of all, we need things to be consistent and steady in order to make our relationships work. Consider that trust in a relationship is built on being reliable day in and day out.Next, ensuring that your words and tone coincide with the intended message is crutial. This is really important. It means that your spouse needs to hear the words which match your body language. If you say you are happy but you are frowning, your partner doesnt hear your words, he...more
While most every marriage can be rescued with effort, both persons should figure out whether or not they would prefer to try to make it work. Because if a mate has opted out and doesnt want to opt back in, there is really very little that can be done.The fact is, some people will stay in a partnership because it is convenient or continue being in a...more
Troubled relationships are an inevitable part of romance, and their causes are numerous. Sometimes, a commitment is made and that once made, it can be hard to leave an unhappy situation. You may feel that you have to stay in the relationship in order to support your loved ones, that you are unable to leave for any number of reasons. At the same...more
How to Make Relationship Last - Its All About Respect Since humans began to have emotions other than lust, hunger, and aggression, the question of how to make relationships last has cropped up through the ages. Thousands of books have been written about the subject, so there is no shortage of research and knowledge on it.However, what we've gathered from everything we've read can be summarized in one word: Respect. Yes, that's R-E-S-P-E-C-T, as in Aretha Franklin's hit song from decades ago. It's indeed amazing that even though we've evolved, respect has been a constant. However, the concept of respect has been blurred to such an extent that it's been equated to either being as silent as a lamb or being the one taking all the initiative in a relationship.Real respect is somewhere between the extremes. First of all, one should have a healthy respect for oneself. Only then can respect for the other develop.Respect yourselfIn many abusive relationships, it is sad that the one being abused is also the one condoning it. In fact, the abuse starts with one's lack of assertion in the relationship. Let's take for an example a guy who's been cheated a lot of times by this girl....more
Your Marriage Relationship Toolbox There are certain "talk" tools that can improve any marriage. I use these tools with couples who sign up for my marriage retreat week-ends during the seminar portion. Specific "talk" tools are introduced...more
Save The Relationship Advice : Three Things You Should Not Do If Your Spouse Wants Divorce Your spouse wants a divorce. You don't. Exactly what should you do? Or better still, what should you avoid doing? First off, do not let your emotions...more
Long Term Relationships Between Older Woman and Younger Man At this period in History, when serial monogamy and high divorce rate is seemed to be norm for many couples, we wondered about the nature of long unions. Mr Wolfman Jack once quote,...more
Relationship psychology is about teaching each person inside the relationship how to recognize destructive or unhelpful patterns that could potentially be driving your partner away. The unfortunate part about most couples is that they often believe...more
Most marriages and relationships are faced with problems at some point in time. No matter how good your relationship is now, you will likely run into problems These issues can be easy to work on. Some relationships can have bigger issues, however....more
If you want to fix your relationship, then you need to ask the right question. Relationship repair can be complicated in the best of times, which is why you need to know the right questions, relationship questions, to get the information you need to...more