Approach Anxiety Cure
Approach anxiety is a common anxiety most men feel before approaching a woman they are physically attracted to
. This typical scenario will sound familiar to you..
You walk into the supermarket and you seea beautiful womanin aisle 3. Afew seconds later, your mind comes up with a million reasons why you shouldn't approach her.You try to come up with the best pick-up line you can think of, BUT nothing is good enough!
Your there for 10 minutes STILL trying to come up with something to say, feeling so much frustration throughout your body (at this stage, your approach anxiety will be reaching its peak and you will be feeling more anxious and needy).. then you think of that perfect opener'- youwalk over to the womanandall of a sudden you notice your legs can't move.. you feel anxieties throughout your body; nervous, frustrated and start questioning whether you are good enough for that girl common signs of approach anxiety.
Mate, we have all been there.. some PUA's tell you to visualise yourself experiencing your greatest fears when approaching women and eventually (..maybe) you will be able to getrid of your approach anxiety,control your thoughts and approach women.. without any experience!?'
The truth is,you arealways going to have this approachanxiety unless you face your fears, but I am not one of those PUA's to tell you to just do it!' I want to help you..
There is a solution to this common problem and I can't stress enough in writing how bad my approach anxiety was before I heard about this simple technique. The truth is, your approach anxiety will worsen with time unless you do something about it..
This technique isknown as the THREE SECOND RULE
Have you evernoticed: The longer you hesitate to approach a woman, the more insecure and needy you are going to appear to people around you. Also, hesitation creates an added sense of nervousness to your mental state a personality trait you do not want to portray when approaching women.
Even if you can't think of any way to initiate a conversation with a woman, whatever you do, don't break thethree secondrule! Act in 3 seconds as the default rule, even if you have no idea how you will continue.
If you don't have an opener in mind ready to use right now come up with a coupleyoucan use inANY situation,for example;
Hey, whats up?
Do you know where XXX shop is (HB answers). I'll be honest, I just cameoverto flirt with you.
You are fucking adorable and I just had to meet you..
Hey, do you have the time? (HB answers). Your being too nice, I came over here just to flirt.
In each of these openers you are turning ON' some of the seduction switches; by stating your intentions, being bold, being in control, taking what you want and going direct..
The idea of the three second rule is so that your brain cannot focus on negative thoughts the mind is trying to produce to protect you from external factors. As a result, you have little or NO approach anxiety.
Even if you start sweating, or getting shaky or stutter while talking to the woman after following the three second rule, you weren't that way when you initiated contact. The first impression is what counts.
If you don't keep to this rule and it is a rule; the longer you wait, the worse your approach anxiety will be BUT keep to it and you will have NO approach anxiety the clock is always ticking, so move it!
Approach Anxiety Cure
By: Zak Loveday
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