Feeling Stressed? – What to do!
We all face stress in our daily lives and in small doses it can be a good thing -
it is what keeps us on our toes in job interviews, propels us to meet deadlines and helps us avoid danger. However when the stress in your life exceeds your ability to cope, and when you feel stressed often and for long periods of time, then it can cause emotional and physical problems.
Know the signs
To combat stress you need to be able to recognise when you're not coping effectively. Stress affects the mind, body, and behaviour in many ways. The signs and symptoms vary widely from person to person. They generally intensify over time if you don't take action, so look out for the following warning signs that stress is building:
Emotional signs and symptoms
Moodiness
Constant worrying
Anxious or racing thoughts
Restlessness / inability to relax
Irritability, impatience
Feeling tense, overwhelmed or "on edge"
Sense of loneliness and isolation
Depression or general unhappiness
Memory problems
Indecisiveness and poor judgement
Inability to concentrate, apathy and trouble thinking clearly
Sense of loss of control
Physical signs and symptoms
Fatigue
Muscle aches and tension
Headaches or backaches
Skin problems (acne, hives)
More frequent headaches or colds
Overeating or loss of appetite
Increased alcohol, tobacco or drug use
Digestive problems diarrhoea, constipation or indigestion
Nausea or dizziness
Rapid heartbeat or chest pain
Loss of sex drive
Sleeping more or less than normal, insomnia
Weight gain or loss
Nervous habits - teeth grinding, nail biting, pacing
If you experience any of these symptoms often and feel stressed on a regular basis, it is time to take action to either reduce your stress or to learn to effectively cope with it.
Coping with stress
You'll never be able to eliminate all the stress from your life, so it's a good idea to learn some coping tactics:
Identify what triggers stress in your life.
Take control over your response to stressful situations. Try to put things in perspective by questioning "how bad is it really?" Keeping a journal or diary to challenge your unhelpful thoughts and to change negative thinking may help.
Consider consulting a therapist who specialises in coping strategies using Cognitive Behaviour Therapy. Understand how your body reacts to stress and learn relaxation strategies.
What else can you do?
Look after your body: Exercise and eat well. Along with taking your mind off your problems, exercise releases hormones called endorphins that enhance your mood and make it easier to cope with stress. Eating right will give you more energy and help you feel better too. Try and limit alcohol, caffeine and other stimulants.
Find your own quick signal to de-stress. This can be as simple as touching your wrist with your opposite hand, taking a deep breath and quietly reminding yourself to relax.
Slow everything down: eat slower, drive slower, and just generally stop rushing for a few minutes when you realise you are stressed.
Talk it out with someone you trust - such as family, friends, your GP or a counsellor.
Laugh it off if you can, it really is the best medicine.
Health tip - Breathe easy
Next time you're in a stressful situation try to focus on your breathing. This can slow your body's response and help you to focus on the task at hand. Take time to breathe - you'll be surprised at the difference it can make.
Feeling Stressed? What to do!
By: Andrew Cate
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