Getting Your Ex Back - How Do You Get Your Ex to Desperately Want to Win You Back?
Getting Your Ex Back - How Do You Get Your Ex to Desperately Want to Win You Back
?Breakup is hard for someone still in love. You hope your ex will come to his/her senses, and not only want to come back, but desperately want to do so. The first one has less intensity with limited guarantees that your ex will stay with you forever. The second, he/she is more intense, willing to do everything to get you back. If the second one is more appealing to you, read these tips to win him back in record time.
Take life in Stride - Keep calm. Self pity will not get him/her back. Replace the void in your life by going back to school, getting involved in community work etc. Enjoy your freedom and the company of others. Engage in activities that you took a pass on when you were still with him/her.
Accept the New Norm - Adjusting will not be easy. Do not rush into another relationship, because you do not want to be alone. It will be difficult at first, because you are accustomed to doing lots of things together. However, just because you broke up does not mean that your life has to stop. Continue your routine, and go out and have some fun. This increases the chances of being noticed by your ex, and will show him/her that life goes on without him/her.
Absence Makes the Heart Fonder - At this point, the possibility of your ex considering reconciliation is highly probable. Why? Your ex is probably expecting you to have an emotional breakdown after the breakup. Do not give him/her that satisfaction. Seeing that you have taken control of your life, he/she will find ways to approach you. Do not give in too easily; because if he/she really loves you, they will climb the highest mountain to win you back.
Challenge your Ex - After seeing your accomplishments your ex will definitely want to win you as fast as he/she can. Play "hard to get", this will cause your ex to desperately try to get back even more.