How To Approach Women - 3 Things That Will Kill Your Chances With A Woman

Approaching a woman can literally make or break a guy's chances with a woman

. If you are the kind of guy that avoids making the approach as much as you can, you are seriously limited in the opportunities you will have to meet and date women. I mean, it's not like super sexy women are just walking up to you and asking you out on a Friday night, is it?

When approaching a woman, most guys are going to mess at least a few things up. To be honest, even when you have a lot of experience, you will still make a few faux pas here and there. But they will be small mistakes, not big ones that damage your chances of attracting a woman and making her want you.

Here are 3 things that WILL kill your chances with a woman:

1. Hesitation to make the first move.

Look, it's still the guy's natural role to make the approach on a woman. You can debate this all you would like to, but at the end of the day... the guy is still expected to make the first move. And if you are checking out a woman, and she notices that you are checking her out, and you do nothing-- you are NOT going to make that first impression very memorable. At least not in a good way. You need to get off your rear and walk on over to her.

2. Thinking too much while you are making the approach.

It's often thought of that women think too much when it comes to dating, but many times, guys are just as guilty of thinking too much. And no time does this come into play more than the initial approach. I have known guys that have had a "crush" on a woman for months, and done nothing at all to walk up and talk to her. Anytime that they think about doing it, their mind races, and they end up backing down. Do that and you pretty much guarantee that nothing will happen. Clear your mind and just walk on over.

3. Not knowing how to open the interaction with a woman.

This problem is why those cheesy little books filled with pick up lines from the 1970's sell so well. Because most guys don't have a clue on what to say to a woman after they make their approach. Now, if you have nothing at all to say to a woman, what do you think is going to be running through her mind as you stand there with a blank face? She's going to either wonder when you are going to open your mouth, OR, she will wonder when you are going to leave. You need to be able to open the interaction, and it does not always have to be the most impressive opener to be effective.

by: Chris Tyler

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