How to Win Your Ex Back Even Though it Seems Easier For Hell to Freeze Over - It Always Works!
How to Win Your Ex Back Even Though it Seems Easier For Hell to Freeze Over - It Always Works!
Somehow it feels that you lost the best person in your life. You would give up everything in your life to win them back. No one can ever take their place. You think about your ex every minute, every hour, every day. You are confused, hurt, longing to touch them again, lonely, but still very much in love. You wait, hoping that the doorbell will ring, and he or she will be on the other side, to make up, but the days, and months go by, and that isn't happening. Your big question is, however, how to get him/her back, without you loosing face. Well, to solve your problems read these four tips, and implement them.
Become independent and secure
Being dependent, and insecure, make you less attractive, and changes the way others see you, including your ex. You may be down and out, but no one else has to know it. Work at changing your personality, surprising even your ex, who would find you attractive or charming again, to come back to. Manage your emotions, and think objectively. Eat healthy foods, and focus on the positives in your life, despite, the pain in your heart. When you feel good about yourself, there will be a glow in your face, twinkle in your eyes, and "pep" in your step. Show your ex that you are strong, even though you are on your own.
Share the Blame
Surprise your ex and share some of the blame for the breakup. He or she may be thinking that you blame them for the problem. However, startle your ex and apologize for your part in the breakup. You will earn the respect of your ex once again. It will then be a matter of time before you change that from just respect, to admiration and love.
Captivate your ex
Get a makeover, hair, clothing, and diet if you need to, and get back into shape. Flaunt this new look, body, and your other talents in front of your ex. Although he/she is aware of them, or if you look like a "knockout" with your new appearance, your ex will see what they are missing. This enhanced look, and new mode of dressing, will boost your confidence, and you will begin to be attractive to others also, attracting potential dates. This will cause your ex to also join the queue.
Be proactive and make the first move if you have to
Your ex may be too egotistic to make the first move, because they believe it is below their dignity to approach you, with the intention of getting back together. Instead of waiting for them to make the first move, get proactive and begin to flirt with them. Do not overdo it, but continue with this harmless flirting, until they develop the courage to ask you to come back. If they succumb to your veiled advances, show no hesitation, and get back with them with great speed.