Programming yourself to be self-confident ( Part: 1 )

Programming yourself to be self-confident ( Part: 1 )

Programming yourself to be self-confident is one of the biggest steps anyone can take on the path to self-improvement. In the course of learning how to do this you will have to be above all honest. Honest about absolutely everything, there is no half measures when it comes to being honest with yourself , because it just plain doesn't work.

Secondly, c'mon be realistic!

Setting goals that are achievable is a crucial part self-improvement and becoming aware of who we are and what we are capable of is also a major contributor to our quest to improve our lives.

I want to be rich and famous, have the brain of a rocket scientist and the body of a centerfold model. ( I wouldn't mind having all of that ) , even though it may seem like a dream anything is possible.

How many famous people , like movie stars or sporting hero's, do you read about in the magazines that don't get what they want. I'm sure at least some of them didn't want to go to jail or get divorced. the thing is we pay too much attention to their lives and not enough to our own. It's about time we started thinking about reality and getting our heads out of the clouds.

The time to focus is now, focus on what we want out of this life, Focus on who we are and what our goals are. There is no point going through life without a purpose, hoping one day that everything will just fall in our laps, so unless you have a cupboard full of glass slippers and I know that personally, I do not have the benefit of this fairytale resource. We must (repeat ) must find our life purpose. Once we find this the direction to follow in our lives becomes a lot simpler and easier to follow.

We all run into some dead ends and disappointments at times while we're trying to figure out what it is that we want . But life is full of loopholes and has an unexpected way of turning things around when they are the least expected, so never be discouraged.

Another totally important issue to consider is our values, by this I mean what are the most important things of value to us, Whether it's family, financial security, a dream lifestyle or freedom we have to ensure these values align with our goals. Otherwise a revision of both would be advisable.

Catering for our own needs and providing ourselves with a few treats are just as important as caring for those around us, when programing yourself to be self-confident you have to take your wants and needs into consideration first, only then, when you know who you are can you develop into a self- confident person and be able to confidently help others.

Have praise your strengths and tolerance for your weaknesses, take the time to reflect on past experiences and learn from them. Most of all take as much time as you need to look deep within yourself to find out who you are!

This might of sounded a little harsh , but if you think about it what was said earlier about being honest with yourself will lead you to being self-confident.

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