There is a saying that goes something like this: "success is not something you pursue, Success is something you attract".
Also: "To attract you have to become attractive"
Becoming attractive has to do with the attitude that we choose to have at any given time.
Here are some defined attitudes that we should all aspire to acquire.
1. Attitude of self:
How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel good about yourself? Nothing in this world is more powerful than having a high level of self-esteem.
It leads to a greater level of self confidence which in turn leads to success. If you like yourself, the chances of others liking you increases exponentially
2. Attitude of togetherness:
How you feel about others is very important.
You have heard the saying " you need more than one hand to clap". Your communication skills are essential for your success. No matter how smart you may be, your ability to communicate and persuade others will help you on your path to freedom.
3. Attitude of the past:
How do you feel about the past? Do you hold on to things that have long passed? Are you carrying your past around you like a piece of luggage? Are you reliving all your past mistakes and inadequacies?
If you do, you are draining all that energy from yourself and leaving none to focus on the present moment or even for the future.
Failure exists only in the mind. There is nothing like failure only feedback. We use the feedback to learn from the past.
4. Attitude of the future:
We look to the future for inspiration. We use our goals to fire ourselves up and to think of how we can accomplish them.
But we do not stay up worrying about the future. Have you set goals for yourself?
5. Attitude of the moment:
If we do not hold on to the past or worry about the future then we are in the present moment. To attract freedom that is where we always have to be.
Living in the present moment means focusing on what is at hand, not thinking about the past or the future. Doing what needs to be done in the moment in order to create the future.
Your attitude determines your altitude. In order to be attractive we have to choose the right attitude.
Living in freedom means living with the right attitudes of mind.